Clara Was Here

^ As the Lenin quote goes... I have so much to update from the past 4 weeks that it is impossible, not to mention pointless, to go into significant detail for any of them. A quick note-to-self will have to do here. ~ The biggest life change is that I am now "seeing someone". (I hate the term "seeing someone" because it's so vulgar and objectifying, like you can replace one person with another.) It happened pretty quickly and unexpectedly. When I rebooted the online dating account a couple of months ago, I wasn't interested in anything serious. To be perfectly honest, I only wanted to meet a few non-monogamous people, learn about their experiences, maybe write something about it while figuring out if it was for me. But then I met someone who I'm actually developing feelings for. And despite my reservations about the relationship escalator, escalation is most definitely happening. Fast, too. It's made me realise how flawed the idea of casual dating is ...